Ugh..my sister is not coming now until Tuesday night. She was supposed to come home on Sunday. The weather was so nasty on Sat. night and SUnday where the airport is in Conn. that she is now 2 days behind getting her flight home. That's ok though because now she is staying 3 extra days on the other end and will get to be here for New Year's Eve and isn't leaving until Jan. 2! Yah!
Sammy is getting a recheck done at the doc's this afternoon for his pneumonia. He now has another cough going on, like a cold one. I am praying hard that he is able to resolve this before the holidays! My poor sweetie...I am getting so frustrated with the no sleep , too much meds, and no eating which is our latest battle yesterday.
One and a half more days at work with the kids and then vacation baby! :)
skip to main |
skip to sidebar
.com/
A way to keep everybody near and far updated on the happenin's in the Hibbard/Huber household.
Click to feed the shelter animals! It's free! :)
Followers
God Chooses A Mom for A Disabled Childby Erma Bombeck
Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen? Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth; son; patron saint, Matthew.
"Forrest, Marjorie; daughter; patron saint, Cecelia.
"Rudledge, Carrie; twins; patron saint.... give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."
The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."
"Exactly," smiles God. "Could I give a handicapped child a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."
"But has she patience?" asks the angel.
"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it. I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independance. She'll have to teach the child to live in her world and that's not going to be easy."
"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."
God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."
The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"
God nods. "If she can't seperate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, there is a woman I will bless with a child less then perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word.' She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her blind child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations.
"I will permit her to see clearly the things I see --- ignorance, cruelty, prejudice --- and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."
"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in midair.
God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."
Most women become mothers by accident, some by choice, a few by social pressures, and a couple by habit. This year, nearly 100,000 women will become mothers of handicapped children. Did you ever wonder how mothers of handicapped children are chosen? Somehow I visualize God hovering over Earth selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to make notes in a giant ledger.
"Armstrong, Beth; son; patron saint, Matthew.
"Forrest, Marjorie; daughter; patron saint, Cecelia.
"Rudledge, Carrie; twins; patron saint.... give her Gerard. He's used to profanity."
Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles, "Give her a handicapped child."
The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy."
"Exactly," smiles God. "Could I give a handicapped child a mother who does not know laughter? That would be cruel."
"But has she patience?" asks the angel.
"I don't want her to have too much patience or she will drown in a sea of self-pity and despair. Once the shock and resentment wears off, she'll handle it. I watched her today. She has that feeling of self and independance. She'll have to teach the child to live in her world and that's not going to be easy."
"But, Lord, I don't think she even believes in you."
God smiles. "No matter. I can fix that. This one is perfect. She has just enough selfishness."
The angel gasps, "Selfishness? Is that a virtue?"
God nods. "If she can't seperate herself from the child occasionally, she'll never survive. Yes, there is a woman I will bless with a child less then perfect. She doesn't realize it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a 'spoken word.' She will never consider a 'step' ordinary. When her child says 'Momma' for the first time, she will be present at a miracle and know it! When she describes a tree or a sunset to her blind child, she will see it as few people ever see my creations.
"I will permit her to see clearly the things I see --- ignorance, cruelty, prejudice --- and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side."
"And what about her patron saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in midair.
God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."
About Me
- ellen :)
- MA
- I'm a wife of 8 years, a mom of 2 gorgeous boys, one who has CP, and a lover of turtles! :)
5 comments:
Ugh! Poor Sammy Man! I hope the holiday break gives him time to recharge his batteries and chase the cooties away!
Sorry your sister is delayed but glad that she'll get to stay longer. Our neighbor was supposed to be in New Mexico but showed up on our doorstep to get her key back because she was bumped from her flight because of the storm and she can't get out until Wednesday now. What a bummer!
You gotta send those sickies away! Tell them to hit the trail!
It sounds like the sister scene has a happy ending. I hope she has uneventful travels tomorrow.
Merry Christmas to you all.
Oh and I love the 3D glasses pics of all the guys. Where were yours?
yeah, this weather is crazy! We got nothing..it was so weird!
We are doing everything we can to get the little man better! Merry Christmas to you, too, Dawn! :)
Merry Christmas!! Praying that Sammy gets well before Christmas! Glad to hear your sister is getting to stay through New Year's. Have fun on your vacation!!
Oh, and I get dizzy from wearing those glasses..I tried, though..they were watching the Polar Express 3D version..one of Sammy's newest favorite Xmas movies! :)
Post a Comment